From among the core values that Islam encourages Muslims to adopt is the quality of hayaa (shame and respect). Hayaa is the stepping stone to acquiring the true morals, values and ethics of Islam. Rasulullah (sallallahu ‘alaihi wasallam) has said, “Every religion has a distinguishing characteristic, and the distinguishing characteristic of Islam is hayaa (shame and respect).” (Muwatta Maalik #1610) Though hayaa relates to all departments of one’s deeni and worldly life, observing hayaa between males and females in their dealings is from among the most important and essential teachings of Islam. Hence, Rasulullah (sallallahu ‘alaihi wasallam)’s desire for the males and females of this ummah was for them to observe purdah among themselves, and for them not to have any type of contact with each other. In the Qur’aan Majeed, Allah Ta’ala commands women to remain in their homes, and not to leave their homes (unless they have a valid need). This was in order that they remain safeguarded from the gazes of men. The Best Thing for a Woman On one occasion, Hazrat Ali (radhiyallahu ‘anhu) was seated by Rasulullah (sallallahu ‘alaihi wasallam) when Rasulullah (sallallahu ‘alaihi wasallam) asked, “What is best for a woman?” All the Sahaabah … Continue reading Hayaa – the Distinguishing Characteristic of Islam